There have been many important moments of your life, some in which you've had to make a decision about a relationship. Have you decided on the most important relationship of all?
Jesus Christ calls for you to have a relationship definition time with Him. The Word of God in 2 Corinthians 13:5 says, "Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you not realize that Christ Jesus is in you - unless, of course, you fail the test? And I trust that you will discover that (you) have not failed the test." Maybe you know about Jesus, you like Jesus, you agree with Jesus, and you try to love like Jesus would want you to love. Have you ever made the Savior your Savior and made a lifetime commitment to Him?
When it comes to getting things really settled with Jesus Christ, once and for all, many of us are like those planes that keep circling the airport. We're close, but we've never landed. You're looking down on that cross where God's one and only Son is dying to pay your sin bill with God. You know that's where you'll finally get the sins of a lifetime erased from God's book. You know that's where you can find the greatest love of all, but maybe you've never really landed.
John 3:36 tells us that "Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God's wrath remains on him." The New Testament makes it clear that believing in Jesus is telling Him you're putting your total trust in what He did on the cross for you as your only hope of knowing God, or going to heaven. If you've never done that with Jesus, you haven't believed in Him.
There's only one other relationship option according to Jesus, and that is rejecting the Son of God. No matter how politely or religiously you do it, not to believe is to reject, and not to decide, is to decide. The Roman Governor who tried Jesus unknowingly, asked the question that decides each person's eternity, "What should I do then with Jesus who is called Christ?" It's time for you to answer that question. It's relationship definition time.