When Our Bridges Collapse

Friday, August 23, 2013

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Our friend, Ruthie, loves crossword puzzles, and she hates bridges. So when she's riding with us and there's a bridge, she knows what to do. She covers her face with her crossword puzzle book until it's over. I've teased Ruthie about this a lot. But then two bridges in a week collapsed in different parts of the U. S., and I was wondering if I should buy a crossword puzzle book. Oh wait-I'm driving.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about "When Our Bridges Collapse."

This is really not funny. One minute you're on the bridge. The next minute you and your car are in the icy water below. Thankfully, no one died on those bridges in Washington State or Missouri. But when that Interstate bridge in Minneapolis caved in awhile back, it cost 13 people their lives.

I'm not excited to hear that 1 in 9 U. S. bridges is "functionally obsolete" or "structurally inadequate." Fact is, bridges that aren't properly maintained and repaired are in danger of going down, whether it's a bridge between cities or a bridge between people. And all too often I have been guilty of neglecting some very important bridges to my wife, my children, my coworkers, my friends.

Oh, there was a day when I put a lot into building that bridge. I wanted to be connected to their heart, and their hurt, and their happiness. I've never made a decision that I didn't care about that, anymore than I made a decision to let weeds grow in my garden. All you have to do to weaken a bridge is nothing. It's called neglect.

It's not that we reject people we love, we just neglect them. We get too busy for them. We fail to repair the things that break. We forget to hug them, to compliment them, to set aside time for them. In short, we take them for granted.

And in our word for today from the Word of God, Proverbs 27:23-24, God says, "Be sure that you know the condition of your flocks, give careful attention to your herds...for a crown is not secure for all generations." If you want it to be there tomorrow, take care of it today.

See, relationships, like bridges, collapse when they're not cared for. Oh, the final cave-in may come suddenly, but there's really nothing sudden about it. There's a slow, almost imperceptible deterioration. Then one day, it's gone. That's why the Bible says to "be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to become angry" (James 1:19). When you stop having time to listen, you start feeling the strain, the tension, the distance. Then comes that jolt that jars the bridge and exposes the damage neglect has done. And everything comes apart and the bridge collapses.

Is it over? Not necessarily. See, bridges can be rebuilt stronger than ever at a price. Doing whatever it takes, changing whatever you have to change, and spending whatever it costs to rebuild that bridge. But it's worth it to recover all that you have lost on the other side.

The collapse of a relationship? It's a wakeup call to look where we haven't looked before-up. Because what I can't fix, God can: broken relationships, broken families, broken hearts. He promises, "I will give you back what you lost to the stripping locusts" (Joel 2:25 NLT). And "bestow...a crown of beauty instead of ashes" (Isaiah 61:3).

Sadly, though, when we reach up for God, we realize how far we are from Him, and there's a reason. The Bible says, "Your sins have separated you from your God" (Isaiah 59:2). We've done life "my way" instead of His way. We've left this yawning chasm between us and our only Hope. We really need Him, but there's no bridge.

Oh, we try to build a bridge to God. That's what every religion on the planet is. But they all fall short, because no religion can pay the death penalty that sin demands. All our bridges to God fail to reach the other side. But that's why God did what only He could do. He built a bridge from heaven to us. Jesus, God's Son, pouring out His life to save mine and yours by paying the death penalty I deserve. The Bible says, "He gave Himself for our sins to rescue us" (Galatians 1:3).

So the Bridge is open. God's waiting on the other side for you with open arms. But you have got to cross the Bridge; you've got to belong to the God who made you. Maybe you've never experienced His love; His healing for yourself. I'd love to show you how to get started with Him. Would you join me at our website ANewStory.com? Because the bridge God has built will get you home safely.