Tuesday, November 25, 2014
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Our friends were kind enough to loan my wife and me their second home where we could get away for a couple days. Now, when you're in somebody else's home, look, you want to be on your best behavior. You know, make sure you don't break anything, and leave it like you found it. Well, I was having a little bit of difficulty getting the front door un-jammed; or unlocked. My wife said, "What are you doing?" And I jokingly said, "I couldn't get it unlocked, so I'm just pushing it open." She said, "No, no. Don't do that." Now, there's a reason we had that little dialogue. Yeah, it's called history.
See, she panicked right away because she knows my history of you know, sometimes trying to make things work, and it doesn't happen, and a couple times you know something got broken. Oh, I got it out okay, and it worked okay but she knows I have this tendency to try to make things work when they don't want to work. So I sometimes get impatient - I'm the only guy on the planet like that, I know - but sometimes I get impatient with things that don't work quickly. Alright, I confess, I've been known to force a door handle and break it. I'm growing, I'm getting better. But you probably aren't going to lend me anything anymore, right?
I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about "When You Force It, You Break It."
Our word for today from the Word of God; Genesis 16:1, "Now, Sarah, Abram's wife, had borne him no children. But she had an Egyptian maid servant named Hagar. So she said to Abram, 'The Lord has kept me from having children. Go sleep with my maid servant." I insert here, "what?" "Go sleep with my maid servant. Perhaps I can build a family through her.' So he slept with Hagar and she conceived." I'm shaking my head.
Here's the history. Abraham and Sarah had been promised a son by God. They had to wait longer than they thought they would have to wait. Apparently they thought it wasn't working. So guess what happened. Sarah has an idea, she says' "maybe we can force it! We'll help God out." And Abraham goes right along with it. Now, here's a new verb for you: to "Hagar". You say, "Well, isn't Hagar like a name? Isn't it the name of this maid servant; this surrogate mother?" Well, actually, it's a noun, but to "Hagar", to make it a verb, well it means to try and make it happen. I'm trying to "Hagar" this. You force it, take it from the expert, you break it.
Thirteen years after Abraham and Sarah tried to force what God had promised, the son God promised came along-Isaac. Now they had a 13-year-old Ishmael on their hands, though. And those two boys were in constant conflict. They're still in conflict today. It's called the Arabs and the Jews descended from Ishmael and Isaac. And many great wars have been fought over that conflict. And it all happened simply because Abraham couldn't wait for God to do it His way and in His timing.
How easy that is to do. You know, right now maybe there's something in your life that isn't working like you think it should, it isn't happening fast enough. Maybe the romance isn't there. Maybe you think "I've got to help God out a little bit here." Maybe the money isn't there and you're trying to figure out some scheme to help God with that. Maybe the future isn't working out the way you want it to. So you're going to try to make it happen. Don't "Hagar" this! Don't force it. Don't grab a wrong way to get a right thing done. You'll pay for that mistake for a long, long time.
Four thousand years later people are still paying for Abraham's "Hagar" solution. So, are you trying to rush it right now? Are you trying to force it? Are you trying to make things happen instead of waiting and watching your God do it? Would you let go before you break it and let God make it work in His way, in His time. Because the Bible says, as for God, His way is perfect. As for my way, it makes a mess.